The
sad truth is, most couples (and especially must “hook up friends”)
don’t really TALK. And they are especially unlikely to talk about sex.
Whether you are scared or ashamed or embarrassed, it just becomes the giant
elephant in the room.
The fact of the matter, though, is that the
lack of communication and the sexual frustration that results can ruin an otherwise
sound relationship.
How do I advise you fix this??? How about…playing
a game! It’s a return to the sand box - playing together melts inhibitions
and lets the good times roll.
Check out the Sexy Slang game, it is a combination
of pictionary-esque drawing games and charades, but uses 500 “sexy slang”
terms. (From “reverse cowgirl” to “litte man in the boat.”)
Sure, it may not solve all your relationship problems - but you’ll have
a lot of fun in the meantime!